The Fact of The matter - Written 2008

Well, the fact of the matter is as simply put. Why do people feel they need to pry into others relationships? They simply need to feel that they’re fucked up situation is better on some level. The reassurance that for a moment in time, there is somebody else out there who is worse off. SO, leave your problems to yourself and don’t allow other people to take over. Once that happens it’s very easy for the third party to fall into playing devils advocate without even knowing it.

For those of you who think “stupid is as stupid does” (Tom Hanks in Forest Gump), let stupidity roll off your shoulder, seeing as how its just not worth it. Why cause more anguish when bigger issues will inevitably arise. Every relationship is different therefore don’t allow past habits and faults linger on to the next. Keep it fresh, start new!

Ahem, when you’re getting to know someone don’t expect them to be a certain way, expect the unexpected because it WILL surprise you whether you want it to or not. Let it go whatever it is and go with the flow. If you feel the need to express your feelings you shouldn’t feel that you can’t. Open up, take a chance, let yourself experience the beauty of the reason as to why you chose that person in the first place, they must be special. Let it be all about someone else for a change. It’s human nature to want things for yourself only, let’s face it, we live for ourselves, we go to bed for ourselves. At the end of the day if you can’t make yourself happy how the hell can you make someone else happy.

If you think a person is worth it you’ll adjust to the little implications and obstacles that are presented in front if you. So the question is, is it worth it?

We all make mistakes we all fuck up some how. Why work on perfection when you have imperfection to work on, that’s a waste of time, not only for you but the other person. And guess what you’ll NEVER be perfect. I love myself and everything that comes with me. How many people can truly, at the pit of their gut, with their heart and soul say that? Good question huh…

The truth hurts and I've been hurt a lot, well more times than I wanted to but that’s life. If you can’t deal with the honest to goodness, what the fuck are you doing?

The fact of the matter is just be yourself and if you can’t accept someone for who they are, it’s time to re-evaluate what you don’t like about you, because 9 out 10 times you’re talking about yourself.